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This is certainly the case for this feminist who writes, like giving up control over my body in the bedroomI like having one aspect of my life where I do not always have to be the best, the brightest, and on top. not alone. A 2005 article in Men's Health cites a strong, professional woman who feels the same way. She states, a pretty confident woman, a successful career woman. The feeling of being helpless and dominated was really novel and a massive turnon. I've met (and read about) tons of women who feel "guilty" about their attraction to sexual submission. candidate at Indiana University and instructor of the course, Sociology of Sexuality. "It no surprise that a strong woman may feel bad about wanting to be dominated during sex. I think submitting to a partnerwhether male or femalecan show trust, comfort, and even security. I think some women have trouble coming to terms with this desire because there an assumption that woman are supposed to be a certain way in the first place. If our culture assumes that women are naturally submissivestrong women may feel bad about "giving in" to this via S Similarly, if some women feel that they must be strong and powerful all of the time,[url=http://www.xantrex.cc]louis vuitton handbags[/url], they may feel bad for straying from this in the bedroom. <br />But truth be told, true strength is being secure enough to pursue our sexual desires with worthy and respectful partners. And besides, setting rules and boundaries with a consenting partner is hardly the antithesis of course, this often becomes complicated when people mangle sexual interests and "real life" behavior. In response to Rihanna's song, people on YouTube called it "hypocritical" to sing about "chains and whips" after the Chris Brown situation. One person even asked, "So, why was she complaining when Chris Brown beat her?" Umm, seriously? (The short answer here is simply consent.) <br />But still, this brings up an interesting point. If someone likes being whipped during sexhow does this translate into life outside the bedroom? Personally, I think it's all about choosing a respectful partnerone who understands the difference. And experts agree. <br />"By far, most individuals I know who engage in S are doing so in a healthy way," explains Kat Van Kirk, DHS, professor at the Institute for the Advanced Study of Human Sexuality, and host of the iTunes podcast, Sex Chat with Dr. Kat and Her Gay Boyfriend. "S can absolutely be part of a healthy sexlife as long as both parties are mature and the play is consensual." Besides, according to Van Kirk, the submissive is actually the one the shots. person controls the level of play by using understood code words that limit the actions of the dominant. (Obviously, this wouldn be the case in an unhealthy, abusive relationship.) <br />Regardless, suppressing our sexual desires because of our politicsbecause we feel like we shouldn't pursue them would pose yet another problem. I mean, shouldn't we feel free to explore our sexuality without something dictating what we're supposed to like and how we should behave? <br />Not to mention that many people engage in mild S in the form of handcuffs, spanking, and biting everyday and I sure many of you can understand the appeal of a little aggression. But what do you think? Do you get off on being dominated? Or, would you rather do the dominating? How about the women you've been with? I sure an equal number prefer being more aggressive! Sound off below! <br />Under no circumstances did four walls look down upon an uglier spectacle than these sisters rivalling in unsisterliness. 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